I'm with Chibi Mike and Space. Talk to her about it like an adult. But be prepared to walk away from this relationship. It may have been 6 years. But better to walk away from it now than years or a decade from now.

When the bus comes through, it's better to be on it than under it.

 

Thanks everyone. I've talked with her and it don't look good right now She said she needs time to think and said she would be back but also said maybe we need a break to see how that goes....

I'm just so heart broken right now, this was who I was getting ready to propose to and wanted for the rest of my life

 

Sorry Turbo, I definitely feel your pain. Looks like it's time to move on.

 

It's not much consolation now, but be glad you DIDN'T propose and get prepared to spend the rest of your life with this girl. Think how awful it would be if the same thing happened five years from now when you're an old married couple with kids. Much better to find these things out and end the relationship now, before any stronger commitments are made.

 

This blows to read- really sucks man. I sent you a message in private. Stay tough brother.

 

Sorry to read this man. Not really sure what I can say that hasn't already been said. I know I've over-reacted in times that there was truly nothing wrong and it never works out good.

Like it or not it sounds like it may be a little too late at this point? I can only imagine what you're going through, I've only been with my gf for 3.5 years now and I know I'd go crazy if something like this was going on! It would be super hard for me to be calm if she was talking to some other guys more than me.

Stay strong though, plenty of people here to turn to in these tough times.

 

It sucks and nothing anyone can say or do will make you feel better.

Let her her have some time to digest what's going on. Either she will understand what's the issue and work WITH you to make it a none issue, or she will decide she wants to go in a different direction.

If it's meant to be, things will pan out and perhaps make your relationship stronger. If it's not, there will be someone else.

No matter what happens, be calm. Hasty and angry gets no body anywhere.

 

This is tough to go through I know from personal experience in the past. Only time can make you feel better. Just be glad you are not married and have a kid or else this would be much more difficult.

I this guy did what you said and my GF/wife did not stand by me that would tell me a lot about her (not someone I would marry). Sounds like she is saying she needs a break but wants to keep you on the line. At this point I would say goodbye but that is easier said than done.

 

John I went through the same thing years ago. Ready to propose, stuff happened, took a break but I realized that I could be happier. And truth be told, I found Jenna and now I actually am a ton happier.

Best of luck man, I met you guys a few months ago, but you have to do what is right for you

 

Yeah It sounds like she wants time to explore other possibility's but still keep you on the line in case there is nothing better available. Taking a break may help you realize your fine without her. Good Luck man.