i just replaced my starter now my car is completely dead in the water where as before the power would at least turn on. i think i popped this out while working on it but i cant find where it goes back into. nothing happens when i turn the key, no starter, no fuel pump, not even my radio.

 

That kinda looks like its for a headlight? Im not quite sure. Headlight/foglight, check everything that that cable can physically reach.

 

Is there anything plugged into this connector?

 

Probably not the best advice, but if it can reach a plug and fit into it, it most likely goes there, the majority of the connectors have slightly different shapes to keep you from plugging it the wrong one.

 

Thats the washer fluid pump wiring.

 

I have to agree. I've worked mostly on GMs, so I'm not sure if it holds true on other manufacturers (I would think it would), but they make these connectors pretty idiot proof (unless you are the guy who wants to force the square peg into the circle hole).