View Poll Results: Are you depressed ?
Yes, I'm always depressed
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6
11.76%
I'm depressed a few times a year
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15
29.41%
It's all part of life, but I deal with it...
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18
35.29%
I need HELP !!!!
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2
3.92%
I'm just happy to be here!
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5
9.80%
I feel like I'm lost in space
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5
9.80%
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Are you Depressed ?
#22
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Mike - have you asked your doctor for medicine? There's new antidepressants being approved by the FDA every day. My doctor kept changing mine till she found one that worked without making me tired all the time. PLEASE keep talking to us here on the Forum. If you check in here regularly there's no reason to ever think you're without sympathetic friends. I'll listen to you anytime you want to send a PM or email.
Gregg - it's amazing to find out how much strangers can have in common when they start talking. I've got a similar history to your's - severe depression starting in high school, several suicide attempts, ten hospitalizations, problems with drugs and alcohol, and finally - peace. Lots of different things happened to tone down the depression to a manageable level. Giving birth to my daughter was the important one. Thanks for sharing on the Forum - it's really good to know we're not alone in this world, isn't it??
Gregg - it's amazing to find out how much strangers can have in common when they start talking. I've got a similar history to your's - severe depression starting in high school, several suicide attempts, ten hospitalizations, problems with drugs and alcohol, and finally - peace. Lots of different things happened to tone down the depression to a manageable level. Giving birth to my daughter was the important one. Thanks for sharing on the Forum - it's really good to know we're not alone in this world, isn't it??
I had several suicide attempts that had I not been lucky would have appeared to be accidents with the only question being why was he there or why was he doing that?
I am sure that if we talked we would find we had much in common. I am glad that I am finally healthy.
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I am sure that if we talked we would find we had much in common. I am glad that I am finally healthy.[/quote]
Wow. We have more in common than I thought. Most of my problems which led to severe depression and suicide attempts stem from an abusive father. He pitted everybody against everybody - family, friends ,neighbors - so that growing up, us kids never trusted anybody. He was a master at psychological abuse ("You better do what I say or my heart will start pounding and I'll have a heart attack"), verbal abuse, and manipulation. He never hit us as far as I remember. The cumulative effect of a childhood full of abuse and manipulation by one's own parent left me with a giant empty hole in place of any memory of my early years.
I'm so glad Space started this thread - it's a relief to unload here to friends that are bound together by a car, of all things. Thanks for listening, Gregg.
I am sure that if we talked we would find we had much in common. I am glad that I am finally healthy.[/quote]
Wow. We have more in common than I thought. Most of my problems which led to severe depression and suicide attempts stem from an abusive father. He pitted everybody against everybody - family, friends ,neighbors - so that growing up, us kids never trusted anybody. He was a master at psychological abuse ("You better do what I say or my heart will start pounding and I'll have a heart attack"), verbal abuse, and manipulation. He never hit us as far as I remember. The cumulative effect of a childhood full of abuse and manipulation by one's own parent left me with a giant empty hole in place of any memory of my early years.
I'm so glad Space started this thread - it's a relief to unload here to friends that are bound together by a car, of all things. Thanks for listening, Gregg.
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Wow. We have more in common than I thought. Most of my problems which led to severe depression and suicide attempts stem from an abusive father. He pitted everybody against everybody - family, friends ,neighbors - so that growing up, us kids never trusted anybody. He was a master at psychological abuse ("You better do what I say or my heart will start pounding and I'll have a heart attack"), verbal abuse, and manipulation. He never hit us as far as I remember. The cumulative effect of a childhood full of abuse and manipulation by one's own parent left me with a giant empty hole in place of any memory of my early years.
I'm so glad Space started this thread - it's a relief to unload here to friends that are bound together by a car, of all things. Thanks for listening, Gregg.
I'm so glad Space started this thread - it's a relief to unload here to friends that are bound together by a car, of all things. Thanks for listening, Gregg.
My father was a verbal and physical abuser. His tool of choice was the belt and when he used it we never got fewer than three wallops with it. We got the belt for anything he felt was an indiscretion on our part. As far as the verbal part; to me his favorite was to ask Who the hell do you think you are? The response I always gave was nobody. I once stood up to him when he asked the question and told him that I am me. His response was that you're a nobody and don't you ever forget it. I can still hear it in my head to this day. I hated the weekends because we had no school and I was certain that we would get punished for something. I was the oldest so I always got more abuse because I knew better than the rest. I couldn't wait to get old enough to move on my own. I hated him. At least now I understand it and I have come to realize I don't have to allow him to control my life. It took me 44 years to find that out. Gregg
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Where is the multiple choice? I can pretty much say yes to all the above, been there done that. In all seriousness, but I take a little pink pill every day and that is what the DR ordered, you just have to maintain a certain level of sanity. I have a few things to be depressed about and the holidays make things a lot worse, you gotta go with the flow and don't let others dictate the way you live!
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Thanks everyone for your words, posts, comments,
thoughts, experiences, & your offer to help others
that need support & encouragement.
I think everyone can always use some help
and understanding.
Help `if you can...., Help `if you care....
thoughts, experiences, & your offer to help others
that need support & encouragement.
I think everyone can always use some help
and understanding.
Help `if you can...., Help `if you care....
Your openness & honesty is refreshing & shows that
people do care about each other.
people do care about each other.
I am sure not a professional in this area 4-Sure, but there are many avenue's
to search for solutions to any problem. There is help out
there for everyone `if we take the time to search for the
answers, solutions & never give `up!
Thanks member's for your contributions to our
Monte Carlo Family
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to search for solutions to any problem. There is help out
there for everyone `if we take the time to search for the
answers, solutions & never give `up!
Thanks member's for your contributions to our
Monte Carlo Family
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For me it was horrible. If I was in the car alone I would hear a voice that would tell me to pull out in front of that semi or dump truck. It would tell me to head straight into the bridge piling, or onto the train tracks. The voice was strongest just before I swallowed two bottles of pills. The only reason that I didn't engage the bridge, trucks or train was because I cared for my Dippy (87 Dodge Diplomat) more than I cared for myself. It was good that I cared for that car but sad that an object was more dear to me than I was. As long as you are depressed stay away from alcohol. It is a depressant and only makes things worse.
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Ikn how that goes being in the car alone thinking like that & most of the time im driving my monte so i could nvr bring myself to do it, its also the reason ill drive my sports cars at high speeds thinking maybe somthing will just happen, & yes alcohol is the worst thing to get into, i was a heavy drinker a few years ago, ruined alot of my life by doin that but i will admit if it wasnt for a friend of mine id still be trying to solve my problems with alcohol, i owe her alot for helping me with that, it got so bad i jumped out of a 2nd story window, everyone thought it was just cause i was drunk but i was trying to commit suicide, i do believe alot of my depression is caused by my parents nvr really being around & nvr having there support so i went threw years of my life thinking i nvr really ment much to anyone & i still do feel that way, its really hard to go threw life just thinking you really dont have anyone but in reality u do but past events keep ur mind thinking you dont & theres other things in my past that have caused my depression but not really ready to say what those are just yet
Mike if you want to talk outside of this forum you can email me and I will give you my phone number. My email is moparmen1963@aol.com.