yeah, i mean i am really appreciative for everything he has done for me and i love that we have the business and all but it does make it really rough to be able to spend time with him or anything. and i do need his input on the decision but the problem is he comes on wayyy to harsh and i dont even think he realizes it so naturally that makes me scared to talk to him regardless of what the subject is. even if its just to be able to go out with my friends and i gotta tell ya, i cant keep going on like this being scared and controlled by them.

 

Brittany you are growing and maturing. Part of that is learning how to communicate with your parents as an adult and not just as their child. SOunds to me like you are doing a great job of figuring everything out. Keep it up. I can honestly tell you though that nothing will ever change if they don't realize how much it bothers you. You must communicate with them. we are hear for you.

 

If ya dont want to be controlled for the next few years and you like the looks of the navy then go navy. Then they cant control you at all. The military life is a great life! For what ya wanting in life! It will be good for you. This economy you cant beat it! You will have a guaranteed paycheck everyone 1st & 15th and full benefits. So ya want lacis eye surgery? done!, You want throat surgery? Done! Basically like it is if you need it! hell they even give free boob implants for girls lol Im not saying ya need them or anything just seeing how much they take care of everyone lol

 

Well yeah tried talking to them and they completely shut me down and made me feel like ****. Just completely. It was absolutely horrible and they saw it too. Effin sucks!
And yeah well I need a couple surgeries but i cant let them know that or they wont let me in

 

true depending on what it is! your problems they would still let ya in
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