View Poll Results: Do you have a Postive Attitude in your Life ?

Yes, I have a positive attitude in my Life

44.44%

No, I have a Bad Attitude in Life

22.22%

I'm trying to be Positive about life

27.78%

I'm not trying, I just let life happen

5.56%

I don't care about myself or anyone

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#21

07-10-2012, 05:12 AM

Space

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Motivational Video - Never Give Up - YouTube

"2 click or not 2 click, that is the question"
I wonder what that vid is about ?
Should I invest my time ?
Will it motivate me to be a better person ?
What should I `do ? I ask myself ?
Who controls me ?
Am I driving my own life ? or is someone else ?
Why am I reading this & not watching the above ?
I wonder how long the `vid is ?
Ok, I will find out now ~ I'm going to click
that link & find out, because I want to
be motivated & be the driver of my life..'
Yes, I'm in control 4-Sure

Quote:

WoW, Once I clicked the above link there were so many other links on the side bar & I discovered so much more to motivate me...I feel like danc'in (LOL) I'm so motivated & happy (LOL)

Last edited by Space; 07-10-2012 at 10:50 AM.

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07-10-2012, 09:06 PM

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I voted "I'm trying to be positive", but it's more complicated than that.

As a youngster (HS/college years), I was very bitter and depressed. Then, ~10 years ago, something "snapped" (still not sure what) and my attitude changed ... for the better ... to positive.

BUT ... the last 10 months or so ... it has been harder and harder and harder to remain positive. Thus, "trying".

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07-11-2012, 05:33 AM

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How To Motivate Yourself – Self Motivation

Staying motivated is a struggle

— our drive is constantly assaulted by negative thoughts and anxiety about the future.

Everyone faces doubt and depression. What separates the highly successful is the ability to keep moving forward.

There is no simple solution for a lack of motivation. Even after beating it, the problem reappears at the first sign of failure. The key is understanding your thoughts and how they drive your emotions. By learning how to nurture motivating thoughts, neutralize negative ones, and focus on the task at hand, you can pull yourself out of a slump before it gains momentum.
Reasons We Lose Motivation

There are 3 primary reasons we lose motivation.

Lack of confidence – If you don’t believe you can succeed, what’s the point in trying?
Lack of focus – If you don’t know what you want, do you really want anything?
Lack of direction – If you don’t know what to do, how can you be motivated to do it?

How to Boost Confidence ?

The first motivation killer is a lack of confidence. When this happens, it’s usually because you're focusing entirely on what you want and neglecting what you already have. When you only think about what you want, your mind creates explanations for why you aren’t getting it. This creates negative thoughts. Past failures, bad breaks, and personal weaknesses dominate your mind. You become jealous of your peers and start making excuses for why you can’t succeed. In this state, you tend to make a bad impression, assume the worst about others, and lose self confidence.

The way to get out of this thought pattern is to focus on gratitude. Set aside time to focus on everything positive in your life. Make a mental list of your strengths, past successes, and current advantages. We tend to take our strengths for granted and dwell on our failures. By making an effort to feel grateful, you’ll realize how competent and successful you already are. This will rejuvenate your confidence and get you motivated to build on your current success.

It might sound strange that repeating things you already know can improve your mindset, but it’s amazingly effective. The mind distorts reality to confirm what it wants to believe. The more negatively you think, the more examples your mind will discover to confirm that belief.

When you truly believe that you deserve success, your mind will generate ways to achieve it. The best way to bring success to yourself is to genuinely desire to create value for the rest of the world.

Developing Tangible Focus

The second motivation killer is a lack of focus. How often do you focus on what you don’t want, rather than on a concrete goal? We normally think in terms of fear. I’m afraid of being poor. I’m afraid no one will respect me. I’m afraid of being alone. The problem with this type of thinking is that fear alone isn’t actionable. Instead of doing something about our fear, it feeds on itself and drains our motivation.

If you’re caught up in fear based thinking, the first step is focusing that energy on a well defined goal. By defining a goal, you automatically define a set of actions. If you have a fear of poverty, create a plan to increase your income. It could be going back to school, obtaining a higher paying job, or developing a profitable website. The key is moving from an intangible desire to concrete, measurable steps.

By focusing your mind on a positive goal instead of an ambiguous fear, you put your brain to work

. It instantly begins devising a plan for success. Instead of worrying about the future you start to do something about it. This is the first step in motivating yourself to take action. When know what you want, you become motivated to take action.

Developing Direction

The final piece in the motivational puzzle is direction. If focus means having an ultimate goal, direction is having a day-to-day strategy to achieve it. A lack of direction kills motivation because without an obvious next action we succumb to procrastination. An example of this is a person who wants to have a popular blog, but who spends more time reading posts about blogging than actually writing articles. Like an alien just filling in spaces on a screen

It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter periods of low energy, bad luck, and even the occasional failure. If you don’t discipline your mind, these minor speed bumps can turn into mental monsters. By being on guard against the top 3 motivation killers you can preserve your motivation and propel yourself to success.