At your age ... you don't have control over the "Need to breed system"
Oh, sure you can say: "I'll wait for the right time!"
But, the Sports Car you have garaged behind your trousers zipper isn't going to like not getting detailed or parked in a warm garage for a little while, occasionally.
(Auto-motive-ly speaking)
So, that means you are going to have to find a new garage to park it in.
You might be all bent out of shape because the first time you garaged the car you got attached to something about the company that owns the garage.
And, this made you think that there was only one garage you should put your Monte in; forever.
Don't be silly.
Your Monte will be perfectly happy parking in any garage that needs a big coupe.
You should try and find an owner of an older garage that wants a big coupe and get parked by an experienced garage owner.
One that ain't going to let you take the car out of the garage until you've had your big coupe washed and waxed by someone with years of experience.

 

you anit lie you really covered everything that i feel... i do plan on going for an older lady who has something goin for her and not this little girl stuff.. thanks guys you've really helped me.. gah i love this site.

 

Wow.... nice kenning. I laughed the whole way through it.

 

Try working on your car to take your mind off things.
And taking one day at a time does help. Tell yourself, I'm not going to think about the future, only the right now.

Take if from someone who's lived it. Older women was allI wanted. When they start getting up around 35 years old all they think about is, "I don't want another kid." and all you can think about is "Getting down to business as soon and often as possible."

My hs g/f & I were together a total of 6 years. She dumped me for a dope pusher who beat her. (If that's what she wanted, then more power to her)
I got to thinking one night she wasn't acting like herself so I headed back over to her sister's only to find her in bed with some guy she swore she didn't even know his name?
The doper finally put things in perspective for me that if she really cared for me she would make an effort to save what we had. That was 25 years ago. Did I mention this girl was completely psycho?????

Then I made the mistake of having a relationship with a girl who lied constantly. Sad part is she didn't need to. She was very talented in her own right. But you couldn't believe one word she said.

I then went out with some girls I went to college with but nothing serious.

Met my next g/f in the grogery store. True story.
She was checking out the sausages and I happen to walk by. (okay that may not the full truth)
We were together for 4 years. Her oldest son started the end of our relationship. He was 15 and decided he was old enough to cuss me out one night. I wasn't about to put up with it and let her know so.
We tried to mend things but it wasn'tment to be.

When I was 30,I'd lost my job after 8.5 years and the above g/f threw me out on the street. I had to live in my carfor a time. And the cops loved me. They loved harrassing me is what I mean.

Iended back in college trying to get a degree and when I was 34 I was dating three 24 year olds. Again true story. You better believe I was in heaven. Till one ofthem (Becky) showed her true colors. She insistedI stop seeing the othertwo whom I'd known longer then her. Things just spiraled downfrom there. Eventually we split and I got back with one of the girls I'd been seeing. We're still together.

So unless you plan of joining a monestaryget used to women troubles. Even if you get married they never end.
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That was the funniest thing I've read in a long time, helped cheer me up.
I'm not sad because of girl problems, atleast not yet, I'm sad 'cause I broke my screen on my iPod this morning after adding another 100 music videos last night


As for the next relationship being bad Anthony? There isn't much chance of finding out unless you do it, so dive right in with some other girl. You can even tell her that you'll need some help getting over the other one and if this new one is decent enough she should help you right out and you'll be good in no time.

Until then you've always got your Monte and it's unlikely that she's gonna cheat on you. Unless she gets stolen, but that's more like rape, and you'd probably have to beat the crap outta whoever did it...

 

yeah..... i'm really startin to get over her... I've got a couple of girls who are friends that I am talkin to right now, one wants me to help her work on her car sense I know a little about them, so she wants me to ride with her to auto zone after school tomo... this is interesting... but she doesnt want a realationship she wants to be own her own right now.. I wish I knew why she wants that, she says she just got out of a ralationship and wants time to do her right now... I wish that I could have a rebound girlfriend tho, I think that would be the ultimate cure.

 

You ain't listening to that girl, right!
She's saying: "I want you to go to the AutoZone with me"
Your hearing: "Go to the AutoZone with me."

You should be hearing: "Take me to The Twilight Zone; hurry! I want your Monster Monte parked in my little garage all the way up to your rear tires. Check my oil. Forget trying for a low E/T. Just take your sweet time driving that big coupe into the Pit Garage and let me tune-it-up until the last car finishes the Daytona 500. Let's see if we can get The Checkered Flag; together."

 

lol I don't think going to auto zone would mean all of that, but maybe it does I wont know until the end of school.

 

I wish I could have jumped on this earlier for you but it looks like some things have fixed themselves. For future referance though:

1. Don't bring up your ex with new women - that shows old attachment and interest in the ex. Bring that stuff up with your buddies or even here to let it out.

2. Don't bring up that she was seeing another guy - that shows that he is more valuable to her than you are and socially shows you are inadequate. If the new girl asks, be polite and say you had differances of opinions on your relationship.

3. Get the Rosey Glasses off!!! You are thinking of her as this sweet thing that is just great and just made a mistake or made an error in judgement. It's Bull****. She was cheating on you and she was lying to you. People by this age should know that it doesn't fly and she would be pissed if you did that to her.

Start looking for some of the negatives about her and concentrating on them. That will help you get over her quickly.