my goodbye... again
#42
RE: my goodbye... again
Chris,
I’m sorry you are having to deal with idiots who have the mentality of a potato chip. Especially during this hard time in your life. I didn’t see the thread where it began and I’m certainly glad I didn’t. I hate that kind of garbage. I’ll never understand what motivates people to attack and be hateful. What’s the point?
My opinion may not be worth anything but my thoughts on you leaving a site where you are respected and cared for are…..DON’T DO IT!!! If you need to take a break then so be it, but don’t let somebody push you away from what you enjoy because of their own shortcomings. Don’t give them the satisfaction ofpushing you away. If you do that it just empowers them and then they are on to the next soul that they want bully and pretend they are badazzes. They are not worth it.
You have a contingent of loyal family here and they all have your back. That is what family is for.
Keep your chin up and stay strong.
I’m sorry you are having to deal with idiots who have the mentality of a potato chip. Especially during this hard time in your life. I didn’t see the thread where it began and I’m certainly glad I didn’t. I hate that kind of garbage. I’ll never understand what motivates people to attack and be hateful. What’s the point?
My opinion may not be worth anything but my thoughts on you leaving a site where you are respected and cared for are…..DON’T DO IT!!! If you need to take a break then so be it, but don’t let somebody push you away from what you enjoy because of their own shortcomings. Don’t give them the satisfaction ofpushing you away. If you do that it just empowers them and then they are on to the next soul that they want bully and pretend they are badazzes. They are not worth it.
You have a contingent of loyal family here and they all have your back. That is what family is for.
Keep your chin up and stay strong.
#44
RE: my goodbye... again
ORIGINAL: Taz
Just a note to the caring members here...
Manitcor (the admin at MyMonte.com) has just informed me that Finken has been banned from MM.
I should also add that Manitcor intends to take appropriate action on the MM site, anyone else starting this crap up here again. This means that anyone pulling the kind of thing Finken did will also be banned from the MM site. So please refrain from bashing the MM site.
Just a note to the caring members here...
Manitcor (the admin at MyMonte.com) has just informed me that Finken has been banned from MM.
I should also add that Manitcor intends to take appropriate action on the MM site, anyone else starting this crap up here again. This means that anyone pulling the kind of thing Finken did will also be banned from the MM site. So please refrain from bashing the MM site.
#45
RE: my goodbye... again
yeah... they can't be held accountable for their people, and I'm glad they stepped up to defend themselves. they can't control what their members do here, just like our mods can't control what our members do elsewhere.
#46
RE: my goodbye... again
thing is they dont do a good job there, some of the MANY threads that were created only to bash me had been there for a lonnnnnnnng time, were the most active threads, dozens of members participated in it, and nothing was done about it. i go there defend my car get ragged on by god knows how many members THEN the mods deleted the post after they discovered that i found out about it. and out of all of this i get a pm from the mods fussin cos my sig was too big LOL
so yeah good form on letting us think their doing all that great but i aint buying it 1 bit. and the fact that i saw for my own eyes before it was deleted a thread where the admin manitocor or w/e was bashing my car club personally oh no sir not gonna belive that hype in the least
so yeah good form on letting us think their doing all that great but i aint buying it 1 bit. and the fact that i saw for my own eyes before it was deleted a thread where the admin manitocor or w/e was bashing my car club personally oh no sir not gonna belive that hype in the least
#47
RE: my goodbye... again
You know, when this originally happened in November 2007, you and I PMed personally and I apoligized to you for missing the ONE thread that was up for a month. I didn't catch it, I am human and I cannot read every thread on the site, some fall through, but as soon as someone alerted me of it, it was removed. I apologized to you and you told me you understood via PM.
The second thread was taken down ONE DAY after it was posted and I was made aware of it. And the third recent thread was pulled TWO DAYS after it was posted. I did not realize he was posting about you, but once that was made clear, the situation was handled and the member (FinkenZ34 has started ALL THREE threads about you on our forum) has been banned from our forums. We do work on a three strikes, you're out policy.
Unfortunately, We can't control what a person does on the internet outside of our site. Yes, they are poor human beings for going to such great lengths to hunt you down and harrass you, but that is beyond our control.
The second thread was taken down ONE DAY after it was posted and I was made aware of it. And the third recent thread was pulled TWO DAYS after it was posted. I did not realize he was posting about you, but once that was made clear, the situation was handled and the member (FinkenZ34 has started ALL THREE threads about you on our forum) has been banned from our forums. We do work on a three strikes, you're out policy.
Unfortunately, We can't control what a person does on the internet outside of our site. Yes, they are poor human beings for going to such great lengths to hunt you down and harrass you, but that is beyond our control.
#48
RE: my goodbye... again
ORIGINAL: scc24540
thing is they dont do a good job there, some of the MANY threads that were created only to bash me had been there for a lonnnnnnnng time, were the most active threads, dozens of members participated in it, and nothing was done about it. i go there defend my car get ragged on by god knows how many members THEN the mods deleted the post after they discovered that i found out about it. and out of all of this i get a pm from the mods fussin cos my sig was too big LOL
so yeah good form on letting us think their doing all that great but i aint buying it 1 bit. and the fact that i saw for my own eyes before it was deleted a thread where the admin manitocor or w/e was bashing my car club personally oh no sir not gonna belive that hype in the least
thing is they dont do a good job there, some of the MANY threads that were created only to bash me had been there for a lonnnnnnnng time, were the most active threads, dozens of members participated in it, and nothing was done about it. i go there defend my car get ragged on by god knows how many members THEN the mods deleted the post after they discovered that i found out about it. and out of all of this i get a pm from the mods fussin cos my sig was too big LOL
so yeah good form on letting us think their doing all that great but i aint buying it 1 bit. and the fact that i saw for my own eyes before it was deleted a thread where the admin manitocor or w/e was bashing my car club personally oh no sir not gonna belive that hype in the least
For the record we dont delete any threads, they are moved to a holding tank for further review and as a training tool for our mods so I took a look at the threads you are talking about.
there were not MANY threads, there were 3 total. The first was up forfew weeksbefore we caught it and took care of it. The 2nd was up for only a couple days and the 3rd was up for only a day. The first wasa verbal warning to those involved. The 2nd resulted in warns for various members and the 3rd resulted in addational warns. Not to mention the admins of MM apoloiezed for missing the first thread and you accepted the apology and thanked us for doing it. Now you are changing your story? For what? Attention?
It was another member entirely that decided to harass you and he was warned and stopped the activity after we spoke to him. At least to our knowledge.
This last time was the final straw and it wasnt even on MM it was here on this forum. We still banned the offending member for it.
Yes you were told your sig was too big, we have rules on that, just like there are rules here. You dont like them, you dont have to be on the site.
Finally I never dogged your car or the forum. In the very first thread some pics were posted of your car I looked at the pics and asked a simple question:
"Is that wing on backwards?"
I didnt bash or make fun, I asked a simple question. I have no idea what "car club" you are reffering to.At that point the thread had not gotten out of hand and when it did we took care of it.
Yes on MM we have lives and we dont get hardly any money for the site. Both SS Girl and myself work full time (average of50+ hours a week)as well as have a full school course loads. As a result sometimes we dont get the oppertunity to dig into things as much as we like. Our mods do a farily good job but sometimes things slip by. I highly dout any forum is perfect in this manner unless they are paying people to do thier jobs.
Honestly I think you are looking for more sympathy than you deserve at this point. As far as MM is concerend we did what we could, there is nothingg I can do about some people who have nnothing better todo than to find every possible way to harass you. Sadly the only thing we can control are what people do on MM.
Once again, we apologize for some small minded bored children for which we have no control. I am sorry thats not enough for you, please excuse me while I go slit my wrists over this
#49
RE: my goodbye... again
Hi `Chris,
I share one of my grandfather's favorite songs.
It says volumes. I hope it helps you in your times of trouble.
I hope that you can move on, and seek the joys in life.
Let it `be
When i find myself in times of trouble
Mother mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be. yeah
There will be an answer, let it be.
And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me,
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be,
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
Mother mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be. yeah
There will be an answer, let it be.
And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me,
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be,
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
Peace/Out
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#50
RE: my goodbye... again
i didnt say you bashed my car, i said car club. and as far as wanting attention damn u got to this fast didnt ya? i dont want attention i want the people here to know what really happens over on the other side. im looking for more symphathy then i deserve? thats hilarious bro the fact you're shoving it down our throat about how much yall are doing makes me think you are looking for symphathy as well as all the work u do blahdidy blah. and the phrase about going to slit your wrists thats all the proof i need that its you begging for attention as well as being a smartass. the way i see it you just admit you cannot police your own site so dontcha think u autta appoint mods or something to do the work you admit you cannot do? yall claim you didnt know who he was posting about BUT there were links and pictures of my car so i find it hard to belive it was unknown who he was reffering to lol. and now its come to my attention that mm members that were friends of finken are gonna come over here to continue what he started? i belive that proves any point that ill ever try to make about another place
/rant
GIT R DONE
/rant
GIT R DONE