Well, I'm still confused. Sounds like you cost you parents a bunch of money? Ah, whatever, to me your still a good kid! It will work out and everything will be okay - I'm sure of this. Great things still await you Brit!

You got busted drag racing 'Space? I didn't know that story. What were those consequences (other then alienation - pun totally intended). I'm more just curious about drag racing penalties abroad. NO hi-jack - I'll start a thread...

 

thanks guys.

while my dad has been busy with business stuff i wrote a letter to my mom explaining why i did what i did and stuff like that to help give her more prespective about the whole situation since she is harder to talk to then my dad so i'm gonna give that to her tonight and hopefully that will help the healing process. and no i didn't cost them tons of money, i just hurt them morally or something idk its hard to explain it any further without saying straight up what i did. my dad is busy fixing a transmission for a 5th gen monte carlo at the moment (go figure) and thats why i'm able to be on right now because he is concentrating on that at the moment. but yeah my dad and i talked earlier and i told him as good as i could bout why i did what i did and me and him are a lil better now and he said my parents are probably gonna go down to florida this weekend or sometime in the soon future to pick up some things and probably drive the monte back and then we will go back for all the lil stuff off and on til the spring until its all gone. ughh it's just one big mess!

 

Brittany no need to share any more than you want. We just want whats best for you. I think you are getting things squared away. If there is anything you need from us we are here. Stay strong and you will come out of this trouble stronger on the other side.

We all have done stuff we regret. That is all apart of growing up. Learn from it and move forward that is all you can do. The past is the past.

 

Hi Brittany, I only know you from this forum but I will say a prayer for you and your family. I'm old enough to your father but I have made mistakes in life also
and like "TEACHER" is saying.....You just have to learn from them, take some humility, swallow some pride and strive to get better. No body was born in this world
with a set of instructions and a "how to manuel " in their hands. Life would be boring if we were all perfect. There would be no need for Jesus and Churches in
this world if we were perfect. I don't know if you are a Christian or not. If you are; keep looking to God for guidance and strength. Listen to the voice of truth.
God speaks through other people when necessary; we just need to be attentative . Look to the positive and just grow. There is a saying in our Christian community
down south in Arkansas......."Build a Bridge and Get over it" .......just let God be the Engineer of that bridge.

The MC ? It's just a car. I own a red one ( 05 S/C ) but I realize that it just a thing. I like it and enjoy it but it's just a car.
Hae a Great day !
Be Blessed Brittany.

 

Brittany, WE forgive you, cuz WE have ALL made HUGE mistakes ourselves. NO ONE here on EARTH is perfect. We are human. therefore we make mistakes. Ask your parents forgiveness, and ask your Father forgiveness, and move on. Sometimes there are consequences for the decisions we make. Just take the road you are on, and make it a POSITIVE, and learn from it. Can't live in the past, it's done. Move forward.
We love ya, no matter what!

 

Good luck with everything Brittany. Hope to hear from you soon.

 

Brittney, we all make mistakes, I've made mine, but as long as you learn from them and don't repeat them it's not the end of the world. Chances are what ever you did one of your parents made that one as well, it seems like you really try to teach your kids from the mistakes you've made, but some things you have to learn on your own.
Good luck, stay warm 5 degree for the high on Friday.

 

From someone that knows whats going on. It looks way way worse on here then what it is. Her parents just don't look at her has a adult. They know they got the upper hand so its there way or the highway. She is a great person with a great head on her shoulders and will do great in life with or without her parents. I know many parents that would kill to have someone like her.

So i say just go in Navy sign in 4 years enlisted and then become a officer when ya done with school and never have to worry about them owning you ever again.

 

Things are starting to get a lil better I feel. My mom is actually talking to me normal now. Trying to suck up as much as possible so I can have my car once they bring it up here. Just busted my old car (again) today so can't drive that, ugh thats so irritating that it broke again, last time i drove it i blew the trans, this time it sounds like it could be a lot worse, can't wait to see whats wrong once the tow truck brings it here =/ still got a lot of healing to do though and still trying to find anyway to fix things. I'm to the point now of just becoming extremely pissed whenever i think about the whole thing (which means i'm starting to get over it and become stronger, idk i'm a weird person emotionally and mentally). But I've most def learned my lesson and once I get my car back and freedoms back I'm never doing anything to risk losing my parents trust and my car. yes I know its just a car but its got sooo much sentimental value to it and i can never see myself without it. To me and my friends, me without my monte is like PBJ without the bread, it just dont work and aint right. But idk i got a lot to figure out and sort out in the next couple weeks. Doing TONS of work for my dads business right now and next week I'm gonna start looking for a new job I think. Hopefully things keep getting better and everything will be back to normal in no time. Oh and btw I am Catholic

 

its good to hear things are getting better!