i hate being in the middle.. what to do?!?!?!?!?
#12
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Georgia
Posts: 4,861
If you weren't one of the ones messing around, then stay out of it, and yes, there is TONS of relationship/cheating drama on peoples jobs. Just let them hang themselves with their own actions. It will come back to bite them in the a** in the end ultimately one day. Why get involved?
#13
reason i say dont get involved is because lets say you said something and any of these couples reconcile you end up being the bad guy while theyre still fing away. it happens and youre just better off letting it take its own course. plus the fact that you work with these people would just suck if you ended up being the one resented for any of their crap.
#16
The best thing for you to do is DON'T SAY A DAMN THING.
I can understand you wanting to save a couple of these people from making a mistake by marrying a cheater. But you saying something will only make you the bad guy. Everyone will hate you for letting the cat out of the bag. I know that doesn't make rational sense. But in the love game, rationality and sensibility goes out the window.
I can understand you wanting to save a couple of these people from making a mistake by marrying a cheater. But you saying something will only make you the bad guy. Everyone will hate you for letting the cat out of the bag. I know that doesn't make rational sense. But in the love game, rationality and sensibility goes out the window.
#17
It's just amazing what a member can learn on the MCF Soaps
Thanks `Lou, I think it's great advise. I was not sure what `Chris should do , but I'll be looking forward to a update, or future story lines from Member Lucian `Chis
I've never been in that type of situation b-4...
I just believe that true friends don't lie 2 each other...
I know that I'm naive, but I'm learning `bout people : )
Chris, keep us updated on what happens, and what you decide 2 `do....Good Luck 4 Sure....Be `True 2 YourSelf..
Peace/`Out
Is it okay to tell a secret that someone else told me ...
A big part of listening to some-one's secret is promising not to tell anyone else. ... When should you tell someone you have a secret? ...
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MCF Zchool Over : ) Class dismissed : )
Oh, Stay `Tuned......
What's gona happen next ?
Thanks `Lou, I think it's great advise. I was not sure what `Chris should do , but I'll be looking forward to a update, or future story lines from Member Lucian `Chis
I've never been in that type of situation b-4...
I just believe that true friends don't lie 2 each other...
I know that I'm naive, but I'm learning `bout people : )
Chris, keep us updated on what happens, and what you decide 2 `do....Good Luck 4 Sure....Be `True 2 YourSelf..
Peace/`Out
Is it okay to tell a secret that someone else told me ...
A big part of listening to some-one's secret is promising not to tell anyone else. ... When should you tell someone you have a secret? ...
www.answers.com/.../is-it-okay-to-tell-a-secret-that-someone-else-told-me - Cached - Similar
Previous question: Why shouldn't I lie? Next question: Why can't I yell or hit when I'm mad? Especially,
that Crazy `Kid from `Space ? & all his weird posts : )<~ 4-Sure : )
MCF Zchool Over : ) Class dismissed : )
Oh, Stay `Tuned......
What's gona happen next ?
Last edited by Space; 06-12-2010 at 04:58 PM.
#18
holy crap what a mess! man i feel sorry for you but i totally know how you feel. i'm always the one stuck in the middle of fights & personally i've done it for sooo long that i just tell them to deal with their problems themselves & to not drag me into it lol i got my own problems to worry about
#20
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Georgia
Posts: 4,861
Lisa