Michael? blacksheep mike? Chris? Todd? Amy? Anybody awake? Got time for a monte carlo member with a broken heart (not because we broke up) and a huge decision in front of her?? PM me. I'm going nuts over here and can't sleep.

 

 

Hey Robyn,

I am sorry to hear that your heart is aching. My advice would be to take some time for yourself. Relationships are hard work as you know, but they should not be forced. The best things happen when we least expect. Good things are coming your way.

 

Todd... i did something incredibly stupid that hurt him really bad... by answering my phone and it was my ex husband. I told him off of course and told him to stop bothering me. And kevin was very upset by that. he TOLD me that it upset him. But he's been really depressed... has a baby he can't see because the girl won't let him, he doesn't trust me because i'm not totally completely divorced i dont blame him... but he dropped the "L" word on me last night... and he's totally scared that i'm going to go back with my ex husband which is SO not what I want ever. He refuses to let me show him the copies of the filed papers... i dont know how i can prove it to him. he says i don't have to prove anything. maybe he needs to get over this himself, but he's been saying some things that have been bothering me and i'm worried about him.

this is what happens when you care too much about other people.

oh and go figure. i washed and waxed the monte, and it's friggin raining.

 

Didn't you guys just meet? He obviously has some insecurity issues. Best thing to do is give him some space and let him know you are there if he wants to talk. He will either open up or go away.

 

yea like maybe two weeks ago and spent every day together. he'd stop by my work and bring me lunch, he drove me home the other night when my tie rods were needing replaced (turns out they needed tightened not replaced) he'd call me just to say hi, yknow it's the little things. he lives so far out of my way but he did all this just to show me he liked me. Sometimes connections like that can happen. he knows i'm here for him... i just feel like an *** for hurting somebody i care about. it drives me nuts.

 

You can only be true to yourself and honest about how you are. It is better to be hurt then strung along for 8 years because they did not want to hurt you. It was a long story lol. Hang in there. I will check back later. I am off to help my step dad change his motorcycle tires.

 

He sounds a bit jealous over you. I feel the same way over the ones that I've loved... I try to restrain it, but it comes out a bit sometimes.

 

i know what i did hurt him. imagine how i feel. i care about the guy, i hurt his feelings, and now he doesn't seem to want to turn to me or talk about it. i guess he has to work through it himself. at least we haven't broken up yet. he claims he loves me... i guess that's why he feels so strongly about it.

 

If someone is secure in themselves they wouldn't care who you talked to. It is called trust. Now if you were always talking to your ex then I could see it being a problem. Occasionally though something will come up though especially since the divorce isn't done. Time and space is the best advice I could give you as guy.