Yeah, I do what I can for my kids too. I've always told them that if I can help, I will! And when I can, I do without hesitation. I guess my amazement is because I never got that kind of help, Financial help of that magnitude from my parents. Dad was almost non existent in my life and mom was raising the 4 of us and taking care of her mom on her own. Not her fault! So this is Strange, Different to me!